A Poem for You

I have a beautiful,vibrant, and intelligent friend who also happens to be funny, down-to-earth and incredibly kind. It’s a killer combo, that’s for sure! She’s just made a big life decision and is going through a rough patch right now. So, I dug-up this old poem that I discovered back in my (emo) high school days and sent it to her. It’s a bit cheesy, but I’ve always found comfort in these words whenever I’ve felt alone or overwhelmed – and thought I’d share it with you all.


After A While

After a while you learn
the subtle difference between
holding a hand and chaining a soul
and you learn
that love doesn’t mean leaning
and company doesn’t always mean security.
And you begin to learn
that kisses aren’t contracts
and presents aren’t promises
and you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of woman,
not the grief of a child
and you learn
to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow’s ground is
too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down
in mid-flight.
After a while you learn
that even sunshine burns
if you get too much
so you plant your own garden
and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone
to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
you really are strong
you really do have worth
and you learn
and you learn
with every goodbye, you learn…

– Veronica A. Shoffstall

I hope you all enjoyed this mini food-distraction, and to you, my dear friend: I believe in you and am sending positive energy across the globe to you! x

Fiji Sunset

One of the sunsets from my trip to Fiji, November 2010


  1. Hannah 17 April, 2011
    • vegangela 20 April, 2011
  2. Preeti 19 April, 2011
    • vegangela 20 April, 2011
  3. Karla (Kinder Cuisine) 20 April, 2011
    • vegangela 20 April, 2011
  4. Jack 31 December, 2012
    • vegangela 3 January, 2013
  5. Terry 21 April, 2015
    • Angela Thompson 18 May, 2015
  6. Grace 26 May, 2015
  7. Elaine 26 March, 2016